Partners of Sex Addicts Resource Center

A Welcome From PoSARC Founder, Lili Bee
Is your partner cheating on you? Do you suspect chronic infidelity has ravaged your relationship? If you fear you're losing your partner to sex addiction, porn addiction, strip clubs, webcam sex, escort services, fetish sites, massage parlors, hookup apps or married cheater sites, then we know how devastated you probably are. Or maybe he's in recovery and you're tired of being called a codependent instead of the betrayal trauma survivor you are. Welcome – here you'll find the support you need. Get Help

Recovery Organizations

START YOUR OWN PoSA Meeting

Please be aware that to our knowledge, all of the 12-step programs for partners of sex addicts refer to us as“co-addicts” and are not formatted to encompass the Trauma Model. Therefore, we cannot endorse them whole-heartedly.

However, we are also aware that when the betrayal trauma of sex addiction strikes in your primary relationship, you may or may not care that much- it may be more important just to be able to meet others who are struggling through this issue, no matter the terminology or approach used in the meeting format itself.

Sometimes attending these kinds of meetings can be a good way to connect with other attendees after the meetings, too.

We just want to list ALL forms of support here that are available until such time that there is a full-fledged PoSA Meeting in every area. If you are up for forming your own PoSA meeting, please check out the free materials and guidance to proceed with the set-up, linked to here.

If you find yourself in need of a 12-step support group, or the sex addict in your life does, we list them here along with contact information for each group.

Sexaholics Anonymous (SA)
PO Box 3565
Brentwood, TN 37024
http://www.sa.org/
saico@sa.org
615-370-6062 or 866- 424-8777
Fax: 615-370-0882

Sex & Love Addicts Anonymous (SLAA)
http://www.slaafws.org/
1550 NE Loop 410
Suite 118
San Antonio, TX 78209
210-828-7900
Fax: 210-828-7922

Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA)
PO Box 70949
Houston, TX 77270 USA
http://www.sexaa.org/
info@saa-recovery.org
800-477-8191 or 713-869-4902

Sexual Compulsives Anonymous (SCA)
P.O. Box 1585, Old Chelsea Station
New York, NY 10011
http://www.sca-recovery.org/
800-977-HEAL

S-Anon
P.O. Box 111242
Nashville, TN 37222-1242
800-210-8141 or 615-833-3152
sanon@sanon.org
http://www.sanon.org/

Codependents of Sex Addicts (CoSA)
PO Box 14537
Minneapolis MN 55414
763-537-6904
info@cosa-recovery.org
http://www.cosa-recovery.org/

Recovering Couples Anonymous (RCA)
P.O. Box 11029
Oakland CA 94611
781-794-1456
877-663-2317
wso-rca@recovering-couples.org
http://www.recovering-couples.org/

Society for Advancement of Sexual Health (SASH)
P.O. Box 433
Royston, GA 30662
sash@sash.net
http://www.sash.net/
706-356-7031
866-389-3974

International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP)
P.O. Box 2112
Carefree, AZ 85377
866-575-6853 or 480-575-6853
Fax: 480-595-4753
Tami@IITAP.com
http://www.IITAP.com/