These books are for you if:<\/u><\/p>\n
If you can’t figure out why he feels more like an enemy than an ally and everything you’re trying isn’t working.<\/p>\n
If a true apology, remorse and\/or actionable amends just….isn’t happening.<\/p>\n
If his behaviors have you spinning in confusion and yet nothing you’ve read about “sex addiction” fully makes sense or quiets the doubts in your mind.<\/p>\n
If you’re not willing to trade your dignity for staying connected with your chronic cheater.<\/p>\n
If his eyes go cold when you cry that his behaviors are decimating you.<\/p>\n
If you’re not willing to gamble away your future on someone who’s already shown you by his actions, who he is.<\/p>\n
If you believe your children deserve to live in an environment of respect, where their mother isn’t an anxious, crying wreck all the time. <\/p>\n
If no matter how you articulate your pain, he isn’t providing you with any empathy.<\/p>\n
If he’s freezing you out of intimacy, either before, during or after your Discovery of his betrayals.<\/p>\n
If he’s offending you with his behaviors but expecting you not to act offended.<\/p>\n
If no matter what issue you bring up for clarification purposes, he won’t stay on point, constantly shifting the focus from one thing to another.<\/p>\n
If he’s acting like the victim instead of according himself the appropriate “perpetrator” status. <\/p>\n
If you believe that his living a deceptive sexual life and gaslighting you to maintain it is…abusive. <\/p>\n
If, despite your being supportive of him for years, his crazy-making continues; finally you may be contemplating putting down the “hopium” pipe. <\/p>\n
If he’s blaming everyone and everything (especially you) for his lapses of conscience when he cheated repeatedly.<\/p>\n
If you believe that your mental stability should be the highest priority for you and your children. <\/p>\n
If he’s quick to point out your <\/em>inventory of faults whenever you ask him to take responsibility for his infidelities. <\/p>\n If you believe you don’t deserve to be treated poorly and you don’t need to fight for a spot in his life.<\/p>\n If he claims he’s a “sex addict” but he’s not doing everything (and then some) to win back your trust by taking your boundaries, non-negotiables and the relationship repair work seriously. And quickly. True remorse doesn’t take years to arrive at, no matter what the “professionals” claim; That claim is a way to keep you paying for their billable hours… for years. <\/em><\/p>\n If you’re willing to consider that just because a recovery industry writes promising-sounding ads, articles and books, that doesn’t mean they have any peer-reviewed, verifiable research data to back up their claims of success.<\/p>\n If you no longer believe that your health, peace of mind, your life<\/em> is the sacrifice required for his supposed “recovery.”<\/p>\n If, for as scared as you are right now, you’re even more <\/em>terrified of finding out years from now, that nothing has changed at all, and maybe gotten even worse. \n<\/p>\n \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n Are you willing to trade your future? 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