Who These eBooks are For

These books are for you if:

If you can't figure out why he feels more like an enemy than an ally and everything you're trying isn't working.

If a true apology, remorse and/or actionable amends just....isn't happening.

If his behaviors have you spinning in confusion and yet nothing you've read about “sex addiction” fully makes sense or quiets the doubts in your mind.

If you're not willing to trade your dignity for staying connected with your chronic cheater.

If his eyes go cold when you cry that his behaviors are decimating you.

If you're not willing to gamble away your future on someone who's already shown you by his actions, who he is.

If you believe your children deserve to live in an environment of respect, where their mother isn't an anxious, crying wreck all the time.

If no matter how you articulate your pain, he isn't providing you with any empathy.

If he's freezing you out of intimacy, either before, during or after your Discovery of his betrayals.

If he's offending you with his behaviors but expecting you not to act offended.

If no matter what issue you bring up for clarification purposes, he won't stay on point, constantly shifting the focus from one thing to another.

If he's acting like the victim instead of according himself the appropriate “perpetrator” status.

If you believe that his living a deceptive sexual life and gaslighting you to maintain it is...abusive.

If, despite your being supportive of him for years, his crazy-making continues; finally you may be contemplating putting down the “hopium” pipe.

If he's blaming everyone and everything (especially you) for his lapses of conscience when he cheated repeatedly.

If you believe that your mental stability should be the highest priority for you and your children.

If he's quick to point out your inventory of faults whenever you ask him to take responsibility for his infidelities.

If you believe you don't deserve to be treated poorly and you don't need to fight for a spot in his life.

If he claims he's a “sex addict” but he's not doing everything (and then some) to win back your trust by taking your boundaries, non-negotiables and the relationship repair work seriously. And quickly. True remorse doesn't take years to arrive at, no matter what the “professionals” claim; That claim is a way to keep you paying for their billable hours... for years.

If you're willing to consider that just because a recovery industry writes promising-sounding ads, articles and books, that doesn't mean they have any peer-reviewed, verifiable research data to back up their claims of success.

If you no longer believe that your health, peace of mind, your life is the sacrifice required for his supposed “recovery.”

If, for as scared as you are right now, you're even more terrified of finding out years from now, that nothing has changed at all, and maybe gotten even worse.

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Are you willing to trade your future? Answering this is your first step to a better life. That one simple decision.

Our books can help you make sense of the non-sensical and provide you with a map out of this hell, road-tested by many of us who have already survived not only the lies and devastation of our cheaters, but the often ill-informed or overly-optimistic perspectives of many “treatment specialists” who claimed to be able to help us.