Dear Posarc:
I'm totally lost in a very painful sea and your website is helping me more specifically than any other resources can.
I struggle through a cycle of various painful concerns, but for the last several days my main concern has been my body image. Logically, I understand that I could be Helen of Troy and it wouldn't stop him from looking at porn. But, I have thoroughly internalized the message that I'm not pretty, sexy, or "fit" enough to really do it for him.
Can you point me in the direction of help with this?
Thank you,
Lauren Jones
Dear Lauren-
Since there is such universality in your question and this exact issue only gets brought up in my private sessions with clients oh, about 10 times a week, I thought I'd write a blog post to respond to your question. I know so very many others feel as you do. I certainly did.